They are behind you for a reason!
Is this part and parcel of life? Many must be struggling to overcome their emotions when they find out someone is actually talking behind their backs. I hope this sharing of mine will help to get you through this tormenting period. This world is indeed made up of so many different types of people. Those who truly care.. and those who can be so …..aaarrrggghhh. They say things without realising the consequences. They don’t know how hurtful their words can be until they experience it themselves. It’s really sad knowing such people could be your closest friends yet we have to face reality that this is indeed a real world!
1. Know WHO that person is
This person must have been rather insecure. They are very likely to be jealous of what you have. Or rather trying hard to compete for something with you. Usually, they’re trying to gain something in favor of someone else by talking bad about you.
2. Don’t let this affect you
This is easier said than done, I know… But we should stay positive and strong about it. If you worry about it, it means what they say is true. So let them be.
3. Share your sorrows with someone you trust
Bottling everything up will never work! Talk to someone you trust. You will definitely feel a lot better after pouring your feelings out. It’s just that amazing!
4. Life still goes on
It’s not the end of the world when it happens! Move on with your life. Make new friends and cherish those who are true. No man is an island.
5. Believing in yourself
You are definitely better than the people who stoop low talking behind you behind your back. Don’t give in to temptation to get mad! Be an adult and believe that you have bigger and greater things to be done.
6. Surround yourself with positive people and things
Being mad at first is only natural, after venting those anger, stay with positive people who will bring you up! Your precious energy and talents shouldn’t be wasted concentrating on negative and usually untrue things, think about positive stuff that will make you smile!
Life is beautiful to begin with. A newborn baby has such a pure mind, remind ourselves to be like a newborn. God created mankind with a pure heart. Don’t pollute it. Stay away from all the “impurities’ in life. We can make a difference somehow! Yes, WE CAN!